Lulu Olivier 3353810
Response to:
Relationships
Dear heartbroken
writer. While I was reading your blog I truly felt every feeling you were
describing. I could totally relate to your situation, because I have felt
exactly the same as you do, even though we had different circumstances. A while
back I felt exactly the same I had always questioned men, testing them and not
trusted them. You truly inspire me because you are still so positive even
though you are disabled. You are like a role model to me, you kept your chin
high and smiled. The guy you were dating really does not deserve you. If he
truly loved you for who and what you are he would’ve stayed with you. When you
get disabled people(like your boyfriend) often start to pity you and feel sorry
for you and when they don’t truly love you they often write you off and see you
as unimportant. You are worth more than anything. You are an amazing person and
you should believe it – being disabled does not make you a worse person, it
just complicates your life a little bit. If God didn’t think you could handle
the situation he wouldn’t have put you in it.
I agree to that lulu!God is the reason to why she faced this complicated season. But by believing in your heart and not with your mind you will overcome each and every trial that comes your way and that's only but through FAITH.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your response to the relationships account that the paraplegic lady gave. I thought your whole outlook on the idea of love and how a partner should treat his or her other half was rather touching. I can relate so much to how important it is to be with a person who inspires you, values you and is loyal to you. I have had a few failed relationships in the past that as a person have taught me many things but the most important lesson i learned is that you should love yourself first because how can you expect someone else to love you if you don't love yourself. If someone doesn't love you for who you are and doesn't treat you well then he or she does not deserve to be with you. God created each and every one of us in a unique way and if someone is unable to see the beauty in you don't give them a second chance for there is someone else out there waiting for their first. We have all seen better days but we've also seen worse. Our lives are not perfect but we are blessed and should be thankful for what we have.
ReplyDeleteI think you were pretty honest, but I get a sense that your response was based on your feelings because of your past experience maybe. One thing that you should always remember is that we are ever changing creatures what I mean is you are not the same lulu that you were yesterday because of the challenges you meet along the way. It is a good thing that you reminded her of God who is the creator and does not change and that she must trust God and believe in Him. She is an inspiration because she did not let her situation to control her. I also think that we should learn from her example, but it will not be easy to do work. I believe that were aught to learn from our experiences and be positive and stop lamenting for situations that are irreversible. If we are at peace we ourselves we will be at peace with others however this may not always be true.
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