This South African female is traumatized with the condition she is in and with the lifestyle that changed
for her after getting paralyzed, due to the fatal accident that she got. To me I
can take this situation as a challenge that I should deal with. Her partner did
not behave like a real man with the spirit of humanity. He is not the realistic
and honest man and did not love her and proves that he came for certain intentions,
because when loving someone you stand for him or her, in the days of the
lightness and in the days of the darkness. The disability is not something that
you prepare; it just comes unexpected, like she didn’t apply for it. Her partner
does not understand.
People are not the same. It’s
painful when you are in this condition and this situation but there is nothing
you can do with a person, just work on the conditions and get sorted and surely
that will bring you the good and positive lifestyle. Forget about the past,
look at where you are and try the alternatives as to how will you reach you
destination. This gives me a lesson that I should not trust and believe a person
(human being), because a person changes like water. Water is transparent, nut
once you add one drop of dye, the whole content of water will change. Only
accepting the condition, and taking all things simple, generally, will help to
think wise and have the good decisions about your life, will take you from
condition to position.
I am touched by your response and i totally agree with what you said
ReplyDeletethat her partner was not man enough and certainly does not have humanity. It is also true that people change and you can never rely on them and what the partner did just proves that he didn't love her and was with her for the wrong reasons. You also pointed out that it is very painful when you are in this condition because you can't change it and I also want to add to it that it is heartbreaking when someone or your partner can't accept you with your condition and this can make you feel really inadequate. That was a great response.
It is so fresh to read uch a response from a man.Thank you Sifiso you re-affirm the notion that "good men still exist". Now i just wish you would go out and spread these ideals that you have as a Man. Love is everything that you mentioned it is>>it is such a pity though that when the dark days come not everyone is willing to put up with them.
ReplyDeletethanks again for your response_As a Man!